I am very upset and hurt by one of my children. I cannot believe what she has now pulled. I am terrified for my grandsons safety. My oldest flipped out and moved out last night. She came home and we had started our latest project. Since we had not seen her to tell her what was going on she came home in the middle. And of course no one was home to tell her what was going on so she flipped out. She is now lying to multitudes of people though about what happened and it makes me very mad. She is telling people we kicked her out when that is so not the truth. I also appreciated the phone calls from looser boys family today. Someone is going to call CPS on them and they will loose the baby if they do not straighten out and very quickly. Comments are already being made by others that she does not care about the baby and is very short with him. I know she was not ready for this but had been hoping she was getting her act together. But I guess not. And unfortunately it is the baby who suffers. We know from her past behavior we will not see her or the baby for awhile and I am very hurt by that. I have also been told that she is the laziest person they have ever met. Things are just a mess. I know she is a messy person. Her and I have been having struggles over her not keeping the baby clean and her lack of helping around the house.  I am at my wits end with this whole situation. I worry for hers and the baby's safety. She thinks being homeless is the answer. So she can be with looser boy. I think she has lost her mind. Seriously.